Here are some of the fics I mentioned at the meetup:
Tissues of Silver: h/d, told in scarky letters from Draco to Snape and back.. I thought this was one of those old classics that everyone has read..
Things That Seem: h/d, with a horse ;)
Marks We Bear can be found on this page, h/d, where old pureblood wizarding families are Pagan, and do circle magic.
it turns out that the gen Remus fic where he's a teacher in America and later becomes an auror in Australia is Sweet Home